Jeg har selv fundet en løsning med en underforespørgsel:
SELECT
SUBSTRING_INDEX(
GROUP_CONCAT(DISTINCT name ORDER BY CountName DESC SEPARATOR '||')
, '||', 1),
address,
postalcode,
place,
phone
FROM (
SELECT name, address, postalcode, place, phone , COUNT(name) AS CountName
FROM addresses
GROUP BY name, postalcode, phone
ORDER BY COUNT(name) DESC
) as a
GROUP BY postalcode, phone
Jeg spekulerer på, om det kan gøres uden en underforespørgsel.